Cruising
with Kids
How to pick the right cruise line, what it actually costs, and why our boys begged to go back to the kids club every single day
Which Cruise Line Is Right for Your Family?
Before we booked anything we spent a lot of time researching which cruise line made the most sense for a family with two active boys. There are three names that come up in every family cruise conversation — here’s the honest breakdown, and where we landed.
Royal Caribbean — Best Overall
Basically a floating theme park. Surfing simulators, zip lines, ice skating, massive waterparks, climbing walls — the activities list is genuinely absurd. The ships are enormous, which means kids, teens, and adults all have space to do their own thing without getting in each other’s way. CocoCay, their private island, is legitimately better than most beach days we’ve had anywhere. Best for ages 6–17, which is exactly where our boys are.
Reality check: Big ships mean crowds. You need to pick the newer ships — Icon Class or Oasis Class specifically. An older, smaller Royal Caribbean ship is a completely different (lesser) experience.
★ Our pick — Oasis of the SeasDisney Cruise Line — Best for Younger Kids
The kids clubs are the best in the industry — not even a debate. Characters, storytelling, the whole Disney magic experience done at sea. Everything is seamless for parents in a way that other cruise lines haven’t matched. If your kids are still in the full Disney magic phase, this is a genuinely special experience.
Reality check: Less thrill-focused than Royal Caribbean. And it’s expensive — we’re talking 1.5x to 2x the price of a comparable Royal Caribbean sailing. Worth it for the right age, hard to justify once kids age out of the Disney phase.
✓ Best if your kids are under 10Carnival — Best Value Option
The cheapest family cruises by a meaningful margin. Solid basics — pools, slides, kids clubs — and a more laid-back, less structured vibe. If the goal is a fun family vacation without dropping Disney money or paying Royal Caribbean peak prices, Carnival gets the job done.
Reality check: Not as “wow” as Royal Caribbean across the board. Can lean more party-focused depending on the sailing and time of year.
✓ Best if budget is the priorityQuick decision guide: Want the best overall experience with active kids? → Royal Caribbean Oasis or Icon Class. Kids still deep in the Disney phase (under ~10)? → Disney Cruise Line. Want a solid family vacation at the lowest price? → Carnival. We landed on Royal Caribbean without much debate — with boys aged 6 and 9, the activity lineup was an easy call.
Our 6-Night Itinerary
The sailing: Oasis of the Seas departing Fort Lauderdale (Port Everglades), April 27 – May 3. Three port stops — CocoCay (Royal Caribbean’s private island), Falmouth Jamaica, and Nassau Bahamas — with two sea days mixed in. We flew in the night before and stayed dockside to avoid any morning-of flight stress.
Embarkation day is its own kind of chaos — in a fun way. We checked out of the Westin, dropped bags at the terminal, and got through boarding faster than expected. The ship opens for boarding around noon and the general advice is to get there early rather than late — the embarkation lunch on the Windjammer buffet is a low-key highlight and the pools are empty before everyone else figures out they can already board. The boys spotted the climbing wall within about four minutes of getting on the ship and that set the tone for the rest of the trip. First evening was dinner at our assigned dining room table, which instantly became everyone’s favorite part of the day.
CocoCay exceeded every expectation. Royal Caribbean’s private island has been massively developed and it shows — pristine beaches, calm turquoise water, waterslides, a wave pool, floating obstacle courses, and enough space that it never felt crowded even with a full ship docked. We staked out beach chairs early and didn’t move for most of the morning. The kids alternated between the water and the slides while wife and I actually got to sit and do nothing, which feels like a small miracle on a family trip. The beach here is genuinely beautiful — soft white sand, crystal clear water, no seaweed, no hawkers, completely controlled environment. It’s the kind of beach day you plan a trip around. Lunch was included on the island. One of the best days of the entire trip.
Sea days are underrated. No schedule, no port logistics, just the ship and whatever you feel like doing. We climbed the wall in the morning — by this point it had become a daily ritual — and the boys spent the afternoon in the kids club while Wife and I had the pool deck almost to ourselves. That evening was Bollywood Night, which Wife and the other ladies on the sailing absolutely loved. It was one of those unexpected ship events that becomes a trip highlight. Dinner as always was the best part of the evening — by day three we had our rhythm down and the dining room felt like our table.
Falmouth is a port that rewards planning — the town itself near the pier is fairly touristy, but get out of it and you find the real Jamaica. We visited the Green Grotto Caves, which was the highlight of the port day and honestly one of the best excursions of the whole trip. The cave system is dramatic — stalactites, a subterranean lake, bat colonies, the works. The boys were completely riveted and Raynuv kept asking questions that made the guide visibly happy. It’s one of those experiences that sticks with kids in a way that a beach day doesn’t. We got back to the ship with time to spare for the climbing wall (of course) and another excellent dinner.
Nassau is the most developed of the three ports and the most familiar to most travelers. The port area has plenty to do — Atlantis is nearby if you want to splash out, and the downtown area has decent shopping and restaurants if you just want to wander. We kept it relatively relaxed after the caves in Jamaica, spent time at a beach near the pier, and used the afternoon back onboard. Nassau has more of a “check it off the list” feel compared to CocoCay and Jamaica, but it’s a fine port day especially with kids who just want water and sunshine.
Last full day — the one where you try to fit in everything you haven’t done yet and also do nothing at all. We did one final climbing wall session and entered the climbing competition, which was a genuinely fun ship activity that we hadn’t planned on. Raynuv held his own. Kids club one last time for the boys, who had long since stopped caring that they were on a cruise ship and just wanted to get back to their friends in the club. Final dinner was the best one — everyone was in a great mood and we stayed longer than usual.
Disembarkation is the part no one enjoys — bags outside your cabin by 10pm the night before, breakfast early, then wait for your group number to be called. The process is orderly but slow. We were off the ship by mid-morning with a 7pm flight, which meant a full day to kill in Fort Lauderdale. We’d thought about a hotel pool day pass but the prices were not reasonable. Instead we went to the Museum of Discovery & Science with the IMAX — and it was genuinely excellent. The kids loved every exhibit and the IMAX was a proper treat. Best part: our ASTC membership from our local kids museum back in Michigan covered the admission entirely. Free. That was a very good discovery.
Life Onboard the Oasis of the Seas
The Oasis of the Seas is one of the largest cruise ships in the world and it earns the description. Seven neighborhoods across 18 decks — Central Park (an actual outdoor garden in the middle of the ship), the Boardwalk with a working carousel, an AquaTheater for acrobatics shows, FlowRider surf simulator, zip line, climbing wall, multiple pools, and more dining options than you can work through in a week. The scale of it is disorienting for about the first hour and then completely normal.
The kids club is split by age — Aryan was in the younger group and Raynuv in the Adventure Ocean group, which had video games, science experiments, and activities that kept a 9-year-old genuinely engaged rather than just babysat. That age split matters. We’d heard good things about Royal Caribbean’s kids club but the reality exceeded what we expected.
On assigned dining vs. flexible dining: Royal Caribbean gives you the choice. We chose assigned seating — same table, same time, same waitstaff every night. It sounds restrictive but it’s actually the opposite. The waiters learn the kids’ preferences by Night 2, the service gets progressively better, and dinner becomes a genuine daily ritual rather than a logistics decision. For families we’d recommend it without hesitation.
Getting There & Pre-Cruise Night
The cruise departs from Port Everglades in Fort Lauderdale (FLL). We flew Delta — cash tickets, no points available on a routing that worked. Total for the family was $952. Not ideal, but Fort Lauderdale is well-connected and the flight was easy.
We flew in the evening before and stayed overnight rather than risk a same-day travel situation. Embarkation is a hard deadline — the ship does not wait. Staying the night before removes all that stress and we’d do it every time.
For the pre-cruise night we used a Marriott Free Night Certificate at the Westin Fort Lauderdale Beach Resort — a genuine beachfront property right on the ocean. The cash rate was $465. We paid $45 in resort fees out of pocket. A nice way to start the trip — the kids loved having a beach evening before the cruise, and checking out the next morning was completely relaxed.
The Westin Fort Lauderdale Beach Resort
Beachfront, well-located for Port Everglades, and genuinely nice. Used a Marriott Free Night Certificate — cash rate was $465, we paid $45 in resort fees. If you have a Marriott FNC sitting around, a pre-cruise night at a Fort Lauderdale beach property is an excellent use of it.
★ $45 out of pocket — Marriott FNCMuseum of Discovery & Science (Post-Cruise)
If you have a late flight home on disembarkation day, this museum is the answer. Excellent exhibits, great IMAX, and — most importantly — free with an ASTC membership. If your local kids museum is ASTC-affiliated, your membership card gets the whole family in. Ours from Michigan worked perfectly.
★ Free with ASTC membershipASTC membership tip: The Association of Science and Technology Centers has a reciprocal membership program — if you’re a member at a participating science or children’s museum at home, you get free admission at hundreds of other ASTC museums around the country. Check whether your local museum participates before you travel. It’s one of those benefits that saves you money in a completely unexpected city.
What It Cost Us
We sailed in late April — close to peak season but not quite spring break pricing. The cruise itself was booked through Costco Travel, which gave us a better deal than booking direct and came with a $150 Costco cash card on top. Here’s the full breakdown.
Cruise — $2,400 out of pocket
6 nights on Oasis of the Seas, Neighborhood Balcony cabin for 4. Booked through Costco Travel. Came with a $150 Costco cash card, effectively bringing the real cost to $2,250. This was the core of the trip budget and represented excellent value for what’s included — all meals, entertainment, kids club, pools, and activities.
★ +$150 Costco cash card on topFlights — $952 out of pocket
Cash Delta tickets to Fort Lauderdale (FLL) and back. No viable points option on a routing that worked for our schedule — sometimes cash is just the answer. For a family cruise, budget flights both ways as a real line item since FLL is dominated by Delta and American for Midwest travelers.
✓ Cash — no points option this timePre-Cruise Hotel — $45 out of pocket
Westin Fort Lauderdale Beach Resort — cash rate $465. Covered with a Marriott Free Night Certificate, paid $45 in resort fees. Staying the night before removes all embarkation-day stress. Worth doing every time.
Saved $420 with Marriott FNCPort Days, Food & Tips etc — ~$850 out of pocket
Jamaica caves excursion, Nassau beach day, gratuities, a few specialty drinks onboard, and the hotel dinner the night before. Most food is included on the ship. The Museum of Discovery & Science on departure day was free with our ASTC membership — saved us $80+ that would otherwise have gone to a hotel pool pass.
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